Chapters 26 - 30
Chapter 26. Some Rites Of Passage, 1914 - 1932
Deaths
My grandmother
My grandfather
My grandfather Jeremiah McCarthy died on
Marriages
And two families (or four?) become one - Patrick Aloysius Lane (b.1900) married Mary Ann McCarthy (b. 1893 or 1895) on 10 September 1923 at St Mary’s Church, Canton, Cardiff.
Births
“From age to age you gather a people to yourself...”
Chapter 27. The Leaving Of Dowlais For Aberavon
My
Between Gran’s death (4th December) and funeral (December 8th) her body would probably have been kept in an open coffin in her home, the Wimborne Arms. The last time I was to see such an open coffin in a private home was in 1947 when I went back to
Having the dead person ‘at home’ was, clearly, linked with the tradition of the ‘wake’. Relatives from near and far, friends and others who wanted to pay their last respects to the dead person would come to the home, stay a while with the dead body, usually in prayer (sometimes with the recitation of the Rosary by a crowd), and then stay a while with the bereaved family. To-day, fewer and fewer people call on the bereaved: perhaps it is more embarrassing to call ‘cold’, as it were, as compared with the time when the call was made on the dead person laying there, before facing the bereaved.
Of course, as all Irish know, the wake could, and often did, degenerate. Chat led to drink and food, and more drink and chat, and to drunkenness. But most often the drink and food was taken in moderation while the chat went on. It was this ‘chat’ that was most valuable for the grieving: to be surrounded by friends who shared the grief, to know that the community had come in support, this helped make the grieving somewhat easier. There was no need, in those days, for counselling: the community provided its own.
There was one further benefit of keeping the body at home. Traditionally, bodies were taken from home to the church to lie before the altar overnight before the funeral
And then “tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow, creeps in this petty pace from day to-day...”. I, obviously, know nothing of the discussions that went on in the various Scannell homes in and around
He was only 56 years old, and Dad was a fourteen-year old Grammar schoolboy when they moved. His sister-in-law, born Ellen Scannell, was married to Joe Twomey and lived at 3.
All three Twomey boys were closely involved in the life of the church which, like their families, was also ‘just around the corner.’ Uncle Patsy was a leading figure in the CYMS: his early death at the age of 30, left a large hole which the others, including my father, tried to fill. The other two boys, when they married in the 1920s, lived in
So, the move from Dowlais to Aberavon in 1915 was not as traumatic as, say, our family’s move from
There were, of course, others who had their own extended families: in neighbouring streets were nexuses of O’Briens (one of whose descendants would be a close friend to our Peter in Bournemouth): O’Neils (one of whom would be the De La Salle head of St Joseph’s, Beulah Hill when Simon and Paul were there): O’Sullivans (one of whom would be a colleague of mine at Coloma College in the 1960s and 1970s): Callaghans, Walshes, Harringtons...almost ad infinitum.
Dad was a fourteen-year-old Grammar schoolboy when he moved to Aberavon. His Twomey cousins, all of his age, were working in the local steelworks owned by Guest, Keen - also owners of Cyfarthfa and the Dowlais works. Like most of their friends, they had left school at the age of twelve: indeed, they might have left at the age of eleven if they had ‘passed’ the primitive examination which showed an above average competence. Imagine, 1915, this century, one of the richest countries in the world, and we took children into steelworks at the age of 11 or 12.
So, at
In the 1960s, two historians, Marsden and Jackson, wrote what I saw as a seminal study. They based it on research into the later careers of children who had been at school with them when they were eleven years old. For me, the most important of their finds was that most working class children had the same sorts of occupations as their parents had had, and had the same sorts of standard of living. They found that the relatively few who were upwardly mobile came from homes where mothers had ‘married down’ and, in so doing, had given up, or lost, their own chances of social mobility. The authors described these mothers as ‘fallen women’ - taking great care to explain their use of this term. It seemed that mothers who had come to see that they had lost their own opportunities, went out of their ways, to see that their children ‘got on’ at school. They were, in a sense, living vicariously through their children.
It was not only, as
So Louis went to work in the steelworks. And it was as ‘steel smelter’ that he married Mum in 1923: his steelworking lasted longer than the war. For me that war (1914 - 18) was mere ‘history’. Mum and Dad would mention ‘Little Bobs’ as Lord Roberts was known: would have known of the power of Lloyd George as war leader: would have known families who lost sons: knew people, like an O’Brien whom I saw at church, who had lost limbs or, maybe worse, been affected by gas. For them the war was ‘my current events’. Granddad, and by implication, my Dad, watched as the Labour Party split over the war with many ILP (and so ‘socialist’) members adopting the pacifist attitude which led to Ramsey MacDonald losing his seat in the 1918 election. They saw wages increased, allowing many families to enjoy a higher standard of living than they had known in peacetime. They heard Lloyd George promise “Homes fit for heroes to live in.” And like Harry Gosling, President of the TUC in 1918, they hoped “for a better life than we had known in 1913.” It was this rise in expectations that helps to explain the general welcome given to the two revolutions in
Ed. I heard on ‘the grapevine’ that Johnnie Scannel had lost the use of one of his eyes during the last days of the Boer War as a result of a misfire while cleaning his rifle. John tells me that he also had a scarred lip which was well covered by his extensive moustache.
Another story is that he received his injuries through an accident in the steel works. Personally, I prefer the Boer War story – far more heroic.
While I was visiting Alf and Eileen (nee Twomey) Adams in
Chapter 28. Aberavon Catholics, 1914 - 22
I do not know at what age my Dad became eligible to join the Catholic Young Men’s Society (CYMS). In my time one had to be sixteen before being allowed to join and get the pleasure of using what was mis-named ‘the Hall.’ But in those days the school-leaving age had been raised to fourteen, and although the majority of my former classmates went to work at that age, they were still not considered adult enough to be allowed to join the CYMS. Maybe, in the days when boys left school at the age of twelve to enter the world of work, they were allowed into the CYMS at, say, fourteen.
What I do know from old photographs that used to deck the walls of ‘the hall’, was that my Dad was a member of CYMS committees early in the 1920s. There he sat, with a sprinkling of older men and younger, all in their dark suits, with stiffly starched, high-winged collars, theirs boots sheltered from the mud of the streets by the universally-worn spats. The dictionary describes the spat as “a short gaiter covering the instep and reaching above the ankle.” Made of felt, usually grey in colour, they were originally called ‘spatter dashes’ which helps to show their purposes. We have lost the need for them now: cleaner streets? more easily cleaned shoes? cheaper polish?
The dignified clothes worn by the committee members of the CYMS - including their spats - were an outward sign of the improvement that had taken place in the economic and social lives of the majority of Catholics. We have seen how the despised emigrants lived in mid-nineteenth century Merthyr and Dowlais. They had lived like this, too, in Victorian Aberavon: indeed, as late as the 1940s there were still people living in small terraced Victorian cottages which, on
In the early 1930s, when I went to Mass with my Dad, we used to hang about outside the Church for him to chat to others. I was baffled, at first, by the salutation, “Hello,
But it was an effort to bond the community together. That bonding was reinforced by the Society’s many activities, including the Monthly Communion which all members were expected to celebrate. On each First Sunday, wearing their red sashes, they sat together in serried rows at Mass and went to Communion en bloc. For young people such as myself it was an impressive sight; I was pleased that, one day, I might join such men at
1852: A ‘mission’ was founded at Aberavon: a priest would walk along from beach from
1854: Father Percy writes of tending the 1,000 Catholics in Aberavon who have ‘no church, no school and no priest’s house’.
1858: Benedictine priests (from St David’s,
1859: Land was bought for a school and chapel. Incidentally, some had had some sense of vision, for the ‘land’ was large enough to provide, in the future for a large church, a dominating Presbytery, ‘the Hall’ to which I will come back, an
1864: For the first time Mass is said every Sunday at
1891: Mass is also said on Holidays of Obligation, while there were the Rosary and Stations of the Cross every Friday evening.
But to ‘the Hall’. While the church was a modest building in 1918, the members of the CYMS, went ahead with planning the building of, and paying for ‘the Hall’. This was, relative to the Church and Schools, a massive and impressive structure. On the first floor there were four smaller rooms and one larger one, the largest dance Hall in the town, along with its stage and back-stage, as well as toilets and a small kitchen/refreshment’s bar. On the second floor was the one large room which had two full-sized billiards’ tables, a table-tennis area and room, later for a darts area. Here, too, was a refreshments’ bar where, as downstairs only soft drinks and simple items such as biscuits and chocolates were sold: hard drinking had to be done elsewhere.
One has to admire the vision and boldness of the men who carried this project through: Twomeys, Maddens, O’Briens, Corishes, Sextons and so on. Most of them had lived, and many of them still lived, in small, poorly built houses lacking bathrooms and indoor lavatories. But they saw the need for the upwardly mobile community to demonstrate its progress with this Hall. For many men it became a major centre of life. There were card games in one room, chess, draughts, dominoes and the like in another, a small library and magazines in a third. There were parish socials, bazaars, Gaelic League meetings as well as meetings concerned with the organisation of collections of Building Fund each Sunday. And, every evening, the billiards’ tables were fully booked from an early hour and friends (‘Brothers’) sat and watched while they chatted - and mocked the failures of others.
Here, too, in rooms up and down, men discussed Irish politics - at least until 1923. Here they spoke of the Easter Rising, 1916 - most of them, like the majority of Irish people ‘at home’, condemning the IRB’s futile Rising at a time when many thousands of Irishmen were
fighting in France and Gallipoli. But here, too, they talked of the horrific treatment meted out by the military government to the handful of rebels who were caught or who had surrendered. In
The 73 Sinn Fein MPs refused to come to the Westminster Parliament. Instead, they set up their own Parliament in
In the opinion of the Catholic Irish, this ‘war’ had come about because Lloyd George, as Prime Minister, had reneged on the promise of Home Rule which had been legislated for in 1912-14. In June 1918 his government had abandoned Home Rule.
Irish leaders, such as De Valera and Michael Collins, became heroes in Irish eyes for leading the political and military campaigns against ‘occupying forces’. While the Catholics were divided over the wisdom of guerrilla tactics - murders of policemen, assassination of soldiers - there was unity against the British retaliation campaign. And slowly, liberal opinion in
Sinn Fein and the IRA refused to accept this partition of their island - which they saw as a sop to the bigotted Protestants of part of
1. An
2 Dominion status for the IFS whose government would take oaths of allegiance to the British Crown.
3 A
4 A Boundary Commission to settle disputes about the border between the North and the IFS.
British troops were withdrawn from the South. However, de Valera, the President of the Dail, refused to accept the terms of the Treaty. He wanted a united
For Catholic voters in Aberavon, Irish affairs loomed large during election campaigns in 1918 and 1922. In June 1918, Parliament had passed Representation of the Peoples Act. This gave the vote to all men over the age of twenty-one: previously less than half of them had the right to vote because they were not house holding ratepayers. So, in 1918, for men, democracy had arrived some 70 years after the Chartist’s last gasp in 1848. For women, however, the Act was less generous. Only women aged 30 or more had the right to vote - a somewhat half-answer to the suffragettes demand for “Votes for Women” and to their wartime campaign for “The Right to Work.”
For which Party were Catholics to vote in 1918? Surely not for the Tories, with their traditional hostility to Home Rule and their campaign in support of the proposed ‘Rising’ by Ulster Protestants in 1914. Hardly for Lloyd George’s branch of Liberals, now seen as the betrayers over Home Rule. So it was that Irish politics allied themselves with other Catholic working class ideas, and the vast majority voted for the Labour Party candidate. However, in Aberavon in particular and in
Coalition MPs: 395 Tories and 133 Lloyd George Liberals.
Labour MPs: 39
Asquith’s Liberal MPs: 28
Others: 21 (excluding 73 Sinn Fein MPs)
Even though Labour had not won in Aberavon, Party members there as elsewhere, took pride in the fact that, for the first time, their Party was the Official Opposition in the Commons. This encouraged party workers to get more members, to campaign vigorously and to draw attention to the failure of Lloyd George’s government. For, after a short post-war boom, this government went in for tax cutting (and no ‘homes for heroes’), for savagery in
For my Dad, voting for the first time in November 1922, and other steelworkers, and for the Catholic community in general, the 1922 election campaign was one they would treasure for years to come. For their Labour candidate was Ramsay MacDonald, leader of the Party, who had lost his seat in 1918 because of his wartime pacifism. My father would recall that MacDonald’s presence on a platform was ‘magic’ - and this long after he had seen MacDonald betray his Party in 1931. Others would remember it as “like a moral crusade” with MacDonald as “a second Messiah coming amongst us.” MacDonald was a magnificent orator - if, too often, carried away by the hywl, so that there was more rhetoric than substance in what he said.
My pushy Dad, a little better educated than the majority of his Catholic colleagues, was friendly, through the pub trade of his own father, with Joe Brown, one of MacDonald’s main workers, a publican in Taibach. I would come to know Joe Brown of the Somerset Arms, whose son, George, an ex-purser on the Cunard liners, gave me my first job at the South Wales Transport Office in Neath (1940). Links everywhere. Anyhow, Dad and dozens of others were active in the autumn of 1922: leaflets were delivered, posters stuck up, meetings stewarded, and, on Election Day, canvas returns ticked off as Party workers sent in regular flows of cards showing who had and who hadn’t voted.
It was during this 1922 campaign that someone wrote a MacDonald song which I was to sing long after MacDonald had ceased to be a Labour leader. Indeed my children learned to sing it in the 1950s and 1960s, and at
Ramsay, Ramsay, shout it;
Don’t be shy about it;
Labour’s day is bound to come
We cannot do without it.
Onward Labour, on to glory,
This your war cry, this your story,
How we proved at Aberavon,
Ramsay is the man.
The Tory candidate was a popular owner of a local works, Geoffrey Byass’ who had been Mayor of Aberavon and so was well known. The sitting MP, a war hero, Major Edwards, stood again for the National (i.e. Lloyd George) Liberals. In 1918 he had had a majority of 6,000. But MacDonald’s ‘crusade’ led to a sweeping Labour victory: he got 14,318 votes, Byass, 11,111 and Edward’s 5,328. Said the New Leader: “His election is enough in itself to transform our [Labour’s] position in the House. We have once more a voice which must be heard.” Nationally, too, the election had been more than a partial triumph for Labour. Results gave Tories 344 seats, Labour 138 and Liberals (Lloyd George’s and Asquiths combined) 117. Labour was clearly the alternative government. As the song said, “Labour’s day is bound to come” in the not too distant future.
Chapter 29. Two Families Become One: The Lane-McCarthy Marriage
In to-day’s Catholic Herald, a priest, Father Richard ... writes of his wish to be known to his people as ‘Dickie.’ My conditioning has been, or is, such that I find it almost impossible to address even priests with whom I have worked closely for some years as ‘Father Tom’: the notion that I might call Father Smalley, S.J. ‘Tommy’ or Father Peter Griffiths, S.J. ‘Pete’ leaves the mind boggling. ‘Dickie’ indeed: no doubt made from de haute en bas as a condescending wish to gain popularity.
It was otherwise (and with a vengeance) in the Aberavon where my father became an adult (1921) and had his first vote (1922). His parish priest was Canon Kelly, a priest whose Masses I was to serve as a nervous nine-year old in the 1930s: more of that later. By the time I came to know of him (for I cannot claim that I knew him) he was a tall but stooping elderly man on the threshold of retiring to his family home in
Father Kelly, as one of the longer serving priests of the Welsh-wide old diocese, helped welcome Bishop Hedley’s successor to the see of
Archbishop Bilsborrow, O.S.B, presided over the abolition of the one Chapter and the creation of the new. He had to find six or so secular priests with whom he would share the government of the expanding diocese. One of those chosen was Father Kelly, who now became Canon Kelly, with the growing parish of
Now, if Father Kelly had been a power in the Catholic community - as were all priests in the early part of this century - by how much more (as the Latinists would say) was Canon Kelly such. Tall, vigorous (I am told), an active visitor of his flock who sought his advice on things secular as well as religious, he encouraged the growth of the CYMS and other societies and guilds, promoted debating and discussion groups, ran the school almost single-handedly (as did most priests of the time), and was much loved.
As one outward sign of that affection was the celebration of the fortieth anniversary of his ordination to the priesthood. This took place in 1922. One of the most public elements of the week-long rejoicing was a grand Concert at the Grand Theatre, Aberavon. Here was a chance for the community to ‘show off’ its growth, its confidence as well as its unity under its Canon. And the Cardiff Catholic Choral Society was invited down to be a lead item in the Concert. My father, along with dozens of other members of the CYMS, helped plan the programme, sold tickets, stewarded the evening - and met the ‘stars’ from Cardiff. Among the members of the Choral Society were a clutch of McCarthys: Will, a noted bass singer (whose ‘Drinking’ with its descending final lines was an always popular item), Mag (an accomplished pianist and accompanist as well as singer) and Mary Ann, a contralto who had sung on the same platform as Adelina Patti, the famous Florentine operatic star who built her home at Talgarth in Breconshire. This was a little to the north of the Crawshay fishing lodge at Llangorse - one link with our family’s past. On Patti’s death it became a nursing home to which TB patients were sent in the hope, often realised, that the fresh air would benefit them. Among those who so benefitted were members of my extended family. So a future link with our family story.
Anyhow, the pushy twenty-two year old Louis met the twenty-nine year old Mary Ann McCarthy. Of their courtship (over the relatively vast distance between
Later, I was to enjoy the crowds that congregated at the homes of
I have told of Mary Ann’s conversation with her Benedictine priest whom she spoke to after Louis had asked her to marry him. Louis, too, spoke to his priest, the redoubtable Canon Kelly about his plan to marry. Dad’s recollection was the Canon saying, “And who told you that you are old enough to marry”, for he was, after all only twenty-two in 1922 when they got engaged.
We have seen something of the history of the Lane-Scannell-Twomey family into which May (as she was always known) was about to enter. It was not altogether dissimilar to the history of the McCarthy-Barry clan into which Louis was to be engulfed. Her father, Jeremiah McCarthy was born in 1858 and had worked all his life on the Bute Docks railway system which became a subsidiary of the Great Western Railway while retaining a degree of independence. I remember him as a tall, heavily moustached engine driver with his flags, whistle, steel lunch box and uniform. It was in his memory, I think, that we learnt the song which all our children were dandied to:
On the way to
See the little engines, all in a row,
See the little driver, pull the little lever
Chuff, chuff, chuff, and away we go...
In fact he was a foreman driver and, as such one of the ‘aristocracy’ among the working classes. This was reflected in the move from the small terraced cottage where my mother was born (Lewis Street,
There was, too, what my father would call ‘the grain’: he was talking of the looks of our first five children - their skin, their hair, their eyes, their smiles, their confidence. Or, as
I recall the dignified appearance of Uncle Jerry, even when coming home from his job on the docks. And, to cut it short, there was the dignified stance of May - not for nothing did her sisters remember her as ‘the Duchess.’ I remember her put down of some unfortunate at a party in Ben’s house in about 1941. “Come on, my dear,” said the poor man, “give us a song.” Icily May looked at him, “I’m not your dear,” she said. Even in old age she walked tall, dressed well, looked smart - and feared no one. I see some of her stance in Clare’s head-holding, and in Simon’s confident posture in photographs when meeting the Queen and Prince Philip.
‘The grain.’ Treasure it. My grandmother McCarthy brought her contribution to that graining. She was born in Pontlottyn in the
had. My Aunts remember tales of a sister, their Aunty Liz Barry of Pontlottyn: one such has her throwing a bucketful of pigswill at a street preacher who was attacking the name of the church. ‘Church militant’ indeed. Three of my aunts once went up to Pontlottyn to stay with the Barry family: they recall sleeping four in a bed in the small worker’s cottage, for the Barrys, like the Scannells and Lanes of Dowlais were at the lower (lowest?) end of the social scale.
Jeremiah McCarthy married Mary Ann Barry in June 1888. The marriage certificate shows that she was a living-in servant to Captain Fraser of
May McCarthy, my Mum, was the third of the McCarthy children. She was born on
Now turn to the marriage certificate of
Another interesting item is column 3 of the marriage certificate where May is shown as ‘spinster’. But we know from what she told us over the years that she had had a number of jobs. Certainly, like almost all children of her age, she left St Mary’s School,
We also know that the newly-weds spent a honeymoon in Torquay - very classy for working classes when Torquay was part of the English Riviera. There were stories of a particular tearoom/cafe/ice-cream parlour to which they used to go when there, the memory of which obviously pleased them as they grappled with the problems of seven children and the depressed 1930s.
After the honeymoon they returned to live in Aberavon, not in the Twomey home in
Chapter 30. The First Lane Home : Alfred Street , Aberavon
“Every picture tells a story,” they say (whoever ‘they’ may be). Probably true, although I have just done an exercise for Key Stage 4 history students asking them to comment on the way in which Stalin was ‘brushed into’ the photograph of Lenin’s arrival in Russia in 1917, and Trotsky was ‘brushed out’ of another, showing Lenin and his companions in October 1917. Maybe as Professor Joad would have said (and that dates me), it all depends on what is meant by ‘story’: a lie? a fairy tale?
And that reminds me of Dad’s tendency to ‘gild refined gold, to paint the lily’ when telling a story. One such bit of gilding and painting for which he must have been responsible was the description of his father’s occupation given to the Registrar of his marriage in 1923. “Colliery foreman, retired”, it says. Dad wasn’t going to be outshone by the description of Mum’s Dad as “Docks Foreman”: so no “Pit banksman” as in earlier certificates, or “Beerhouse keeper”, “Beer retailer” or, as on Granddad’s death certificate, “Retired Innhouse Keeper.” So, promotion for
We have already seen how members of the Lane-Scannell tribe followed a long-standing tradition by which older members of families, especially if widows or widowers, went to live with younger, married members of the tribe. Indeed, my father had been ‘taken in’ by his aunt, ‘Gran’ Twomey, who had also taken in her brother-in-law, my Granddad. So it is not surprising to see that, when my Mum and Dad went to their new home at
Mum must have found
Poor indeed when she had time to look around in
I grew up thinking that ‘the Tip’ was merely the small area of ugliness that was permanently visible - though shifting as new ash was laid down. Because the wasteland which had been the old Tip, was now called the
In fact, it was a genuine
And such sideshows, with many additions, formed yet another kind of Fair which came twice a year for a fortnight or so. Huge wheels with flying chairs, massive roundabouts, bumper cars, as well as boxing booths, “See the Fat Lady...Flying Pig...Boneless Wonder...Fish-tailed Maiden...” and other similar shows, many with their own organ-ground-out musical accompaniment, made the
And still more. For once a year the Fairfield became the centre for the Circus, with its many wild animals, including gigantic elephants, roaring lions and tigers, galloping ponies and glitter-clad trapeze and other ‘artistes’. But it cost six pence to get into the Big Tent and I can remember being taken on only two occasions in the 1920s and only once in the even hungrier thirties. Better value for money came from a visit to the Palace or Capitol cinemas: not for nothing were they called ‘penny gaffes’ and, until 1930, one watched silent films of daring-do.
If you ever go to Aberavon, you will have to imagine that there was no building between the end of
So, for Mum, something of a culture shock. But, in the warren and the beach, something of saving graces. Indeed, her sisters and brothers and their children would pour down from
To-day a long concreted promenade, hotels and other buildings as well as a massive Wimpey-built estate covers the warren, the dunes having been flattened. So, gone are the rugby pitches allocated to as many churches as asked for one - St Paul’s, St Mary’s, the Catholics.... Gone too the pleasure of walking up dune and down, of picnics some yards only from the sandy beach, of watching ‘toffs’ play golf on the links course...
But back to the house where I was born on
I remember my Granddad in his tall wooden chair, like the one we now have in our kitchen: indeed, that memory was the reason for buying that chair. I remember the birth of either Pat or Gerard, - probably Gerard, with Mrs Carey helping the midwife, the redoubtable Nurse Rees, who must have birthed half of Aberavon around which she cycled on her upright bike. I remember being taken in to see Mum and the newborn baby. More clearly I remember Gerard’s baptism - for a selfish reason. Uncle John O’Neil (married to Mum’s sister, Win), Uncle Lynn Roblin and Aunty Margaret and Aunty Eileen walked from Alfred Street, up Corporation Street and along part of Water Street to the Church on a Sunday afternoon. Baptisms were always on Sunday afternoons “between 3.30 and 4.30” as the Church notices reported weekly. I don’t remember anything about the ceremony itself by which Gerard became ‘priest, prophet and king.’ What stands out is walking home again, and Uncle John taking me into a small shop - supposedly open only for the sale of newspapers - and buying me a small train set. In my Jackie Coogan cap and coat, I was well pleased. Incidentally Mum didn’t come to the Baptism: in those ‘olden days’ - and indeed until after Vatican 2, mothers of newly-born had to wait for six weeks or so before going to be ‘churched’. This ceremony seems, to modern eyes, something of a slur on motherhood. The Church claimed that is was performed in memory of Our Lady’s going to the Temple for her Purification some six weeks or so after the birth of Jesus: the feast is still celebrated on 2 February each year. The mother took her baby to church, knelt at the entrance door with a lit candle in her hand and was prayed over by the priest who recited some prayers, including two Psalms. The ceremony has been dropped: too many people saw it as suggesting that the mother was, in some sense, ‘unclean’ and needed purifying: some claimed that it implied that either pregnancy or giving birth was in some way ‘unclean’.
Back to that birth certificate. On it my Dad’s occupation is given as ‘Insurance Agent’. This was a great change from the ‘steel smelter’ job which he had when he got married in 1923. Maybe the change was forced on him: by 1925 the British steel industry, along with many others, was suffering from the onset of the depression which was a slow down in the works and he, and others, were sacked. Maybe, he deliberately sought the new occupation. I am reminded of Peter Walker’s account of his choosing to become an insurance agent as soon as he could after leaving school at the age of fourteen. “The only man in our street who had a bicycle was the insurance agent. I took the job in the hope that I, too, might be able to afford to buy a bicycle.” Certainly the job was less physically demanding, than was steel smelting, although it called for Dad being out in all weathers if he wanted to collect from his clients. That’s why I remember him in his heavy, long leather coat. I don’t know whether he ever got a bicycle: nor can I ever remember him riding one or ours (although he nicked our boys’ two penny books). I do remember him having a motorbike while we lived in Alfred Street, and I remember riding behind him holding on to him for dear life as he went up and then down Beach Hill to take me to the beach.
One final memory of Number 26. In Number 24 lived a family named Rouse. The father and two of his daughters made up the small pit orchestra which played the music which accompanied the silent films which I saw at the Palace Cinema which was in
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